From the Bottom
Embracing Life and Pain
Last Updated (Sunday, 29 June 2008 23:08) Written by Paratoos Sunday, 29 June 2008 23:07
A few years ago, I would never have thought about asking for corporal pain. I found the idea of asking to be hurt shocking and confusing. Today, I sometimes crave the singletail or her bare hand on my flesh. I purr at the thought of 18 gauge needles piercing me. And this dramatic difference has helped me key in on something.Dealing with the Crash: Post Session Blues
Last Updated (Tuesday, 30 November 1999 00:00) Written by Paratoos Sunday, 29 June 2008 22:55
You've had a great session, perhaps doing something new or intense. You're floating and smiling, and then the bottom drops out. You're confused, self-conscious, and perhaps even feeling guilty. How can you go from something so good to feeling so down so fast?
Humiliation Terminology
Last Updated (Sunday, 29 June 2008 23:01) Written by D Sunday, 29 June 2008 21:12
Even within the BDSM community, humiliation means radically different things to different people. What one submissive may find humiliating, another may consider pleasurable, fun, or enjoyable without the slightest hint of embarrassment. Accordingly, humiliation play is most importantly defined by understanding, agreement and communication. There are two basic levels to humiliation play, which I describe as universal and personal.
