A few years ago, I would never have thought about asking for corporal pain. I found the idea of asking to be hurt shocking and confusing. Today, I sometimes crave the singletail or her bare hand on my flesh. I purr at the thought of 18 gauge...
You've had a great session, perhaps doing something new or intense. You're floating and smiling, and then the bottom drops out. You're confused, self-conscious, and perhaps even feeling guilty. How can you go from something so good to feeling so...
Even within the BDSM community, humiliation means radically different things to different people. What one submissive may find humiliating, another may consider pleasurable, fun, or enjoyable without the slightest hint of embarrassment. ...